Lately, I’ve been hearing a lot about wolves. Not the four-legged kind, but those who walk among us, smiling sweetly while hiding sharp teeth. It got me thinking about lessons I’ve learned—and what I try to do when I encounter these wolves.
Not everyone who smiles at you is your friend. Some wear friendliness like a mask, hiding true intentions. The hard truth? Not everyone who claps for you is cheering for your success—some are just waiting for you to stumble.
These “wolves in sheep’s clothing” often present as allies, offering compliments and support. But behind your back, they’re quick to tear into your flaws or dreams. It’s tough because most of us want to believe the best in others.
So, how do you deal with wolves? The best approach is often the quietest.
When they speak badly of others, don’t join in. Don’t add fuel to their fire. Instead, choose silence—or better yet, flip the script with kind words about the person they’re tearing down. Wolves hate that. It disarms them and keeps you above the fray.
If they try to draw you in, subtly walk away. Protect your peace by engaging as little as possible. And here’s the key: don’t speak about them to others. The less said to them and about them, the better. Wolves can’t create chaos in your life if you don’t let them in.
But don’t lose hope. Not everyone is a wolf. In fact, there are far more sheep than wolves—people who genuinely want the best for you, celebrate your wins, and offer constructive feedback. These relationships are worth pouring into.
At the end of the day, your light is your strength. Wolves can’t dim it unless you let them. So, keep shining brightly—it’s the best way to attract the right flock. And as for the wolves? Let them howl while you walk away with grace.
Remember: authenticity wins. Stay true, stay kind, and let your shine speak louder than their shadows.
